ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT

It’s a New Year!  And we so often think of all the new things we are going to do.  I will be 86 in April so I can’t find many new “things” to do. 😊     I have had more than one occupation. I have traveled to all the states and a few countries.  I have raised children and grandchildren and now great-grandchildren.  I have been married to the same man for 68 years in May. (I don’t want a new husband😊)God has been good to me, and I am thankful for health and good mind.

And as I thought of “new” in 2023, I realized there are still many  new things left for me to do. Technology is always changing, and I am very interested in learning new things about my computer and the internet.  I share these thoughts to introduce what I have decided will be my NEW thing this year.  My ATTITUDE!!!

It isn’t that I have such a bad attitude, but it certainly could be much better. I can be negative about a new idea. (I use the excuse of old age).  I can excuse my attitude about our country because it certainly isn’t what it should be.  However, I don’t want to live in  any other country. I try not to judge young people.  But I don’t think I will ever understand the price for a pair of holey, torn jeans.  They wear them to church☹  But I love their enthusiasm and I thank God they are sitting beside on Sunday. And I can make a long list of my bad attitude mindsets.  So, this year that’s my goal.

Now all this personal confession is to encourage you to move in the same direction. Our world, our country, our town and our families would all benefit if each of us could   live the day with a more positive attitude. 

JUST A PEBBLE

It wasn’t much of an aggravation. Just enough to make me uncomfortable. I kept on walking because I didn’t want to stop for such a minor issue. The longer I walked the more distracting it became. Finally, I was forced to stop and take off my shoe to find the irritation. A tiny (and I mean tiny) little pebble was floating in my shoe. How could such a tiny substance cause so much trouble? I quickly dumped it on the blacktop, replaced my shoe and continued walking. Such comfort! Why had I walked so long before stopping to remove it?

As I finished my walk in comfort, I began to think how I do the same thing during the day. I start the day in good spirits and then discover I am out of cereal milk. A bit later my electricity is momentarily disconnected, and I am forced to reboot my computer, reset all my clocks and check my refrigerator and freezer. I drop an egg as I mix my cookie dough. Nothing major, but my husband comes home for lunch, makes a reasonable request and I “jump down his throat”. I have let the little rocks of the morning rub too long.

So often I let the pebbles of the day rub for too long and my family and friends experience the result. Paul wrote to rejoice…not just when we were comfortable and all is going well, but “Rejoice Always” is his admonition to the church at Philippi. I need to stop, take a breath, get rid of the aggravation, and rejoice in my day. So many blessings come our way and we miss them because we have a “small pebble” interfering with our day.

I am trying to take out the “pebbles” of the day and Rejoice Always. I hope you will too.

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LIVE ABUNDANTLY

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As I sat down to write this morning searching for something to share, I began to think how blessed I am.  I had just come from the picture on TV of the thousands of refugees at the border in Texas and then came to my computer to read from a missionary about the situations in India. My mind was troubled.

On the shelf above my computer are five pictures, one wedding invitation, a small corsage of artificial flowers, one small piece of black construction paper encouraging me to “Be the moon” and a twisted piece of wire shaped like a person. On the frames of three is printed Grandkids and Great-Grandma and one is our great grandchildren surrounding me in hugs. The fifth is our grandson, Eric, as a small boy riding a go-cart.

Maybe the pictures and the wedding invitation from our youngest granddaughter would be explanatory, but the other items are only meaningful to me. Memories of Mother’s Day, of my great-granddaughter gifting me with a reminder from her Sunday School class and the pieces of copper wire reminding me of her father as a young teenager twisting the wire and talking to me at our kitchen table all flood my heart with how blessed I am.

Each of you reading this also have those mementoes which mean very little to someone else but are so very important to you These are memories that we hold to our hearts and know are the important treasures of life. The pandemic continues. The world news is discouraging. But we must take time to enjoy the many little happenings of life.

Jesus told his followers, “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (NKJ John10:10)

Satan is still working in this world, and if we let him, he will destroy or impose on or destroy our abundant life. Those little things that may seem so minor but mean so much are his targets.

He said, “Let not your heart be troubled” and so today I am counting my “little” blessings of life and ignoring the thief who would steal my joy.